UPDATE: A fund for Lance and Carla has been established by the Montecito Fire Department.
Even a couple dollars helps. So does a card, and passing along this link.
A couple of comics folk, Lance and Carla Hoffman, have lost their home and been injured in the Tea Fire in Montecito and Santa Barbara.
Carla is the manager of Metro Entertainment, a Santa Barbara comics shop, and a blog@ Newsarama contributor.
Carla and Lance are in critical but stable condition.
ETA: Fucking Hell: I didn't realize Carla is
cyberpilate . Carla has posted here, and was thoughtful and gracious. (I generally recognize and know people by their online aliases.)
Carla and Lance were both severely burned in a flash fire. Which means I don't know shit about what they're going through beyond understanding that Carla and Lance's home and possessions are gone, and how horrible that is.
Since I DO know about losing a home and what that's like, let me share what I know about helping. My home was destroyed in a fire just over two years ago. We lost nearly everything, including our pets. Our lives were wiped off the map.
Before it is suggested:</lj>
The HERO Initiative aids comics professionals who have worked for the Big Two as creators, and in comics for at least ten years. The Comic Book Legal Defense fund defends first amendment cases.
A lot of people don't understand this, so there it is.
How to care for someone who's lost their home in a disaster:
When the time comes, I'll be sure to post more info.
Even a couple dollars helps. So does a card, and passing along this link.
A couple of comics folk, Lance and Carla Hoffman, have lost their home and been injured in the Tea Fire in Montecito and Santa Barbara.
Carla is the manager of Metro Entertainment, a Santa Barbara comics shop, and a blog@ Newsarama contributor.
Carla and Lance are in critical but stable condition.
ETA: Fucking Hell: I didn't realize Carla is
Carla and Lance were both severely burned in a flash fire. Which means I don't know shit about what they're going through beyond understanding that Carla and Lance's home and possessions are gone, and how horrible that is.
Since I DO know about losing a home and what that's like, let me share what I know about helping. My home was destroyed in a fire just over two years ago. We lost nearly everything, including our pets. Our lives were wiped off the map.
Before it is suggested:</lj>
The HERO Initiative aids comics professionals who have worked for the Big Two as creators, and in comics for at least ten years. The Comic Book Legal Defense fund defends first amendment cases.
A lot of people don't understand this, so there it is.
Most important thing: MONEY. Insurance can be bitchy and pokey. Immediate cash for clothes, food and so on is a HUGE help. It gives a sense of security.
More on money and contributions further on.
Unless you've lost a house in a fire (or other disaster), you really don't know what it's like. You're right, you can't imagine. "Sucks" doesn't even thinly cover what it's like to lose one's home in a fire.
From my own experience, expressions of good thoughts and encouragement were enough. You don't have to try and relate. It's cool to just say, "I am thinking about you, and wish you luck."
The best way to understand the loss of one's home (at least as much as one can without losing their home to a disaster) is to imagine going into a Target (for example) and understanding that even if you bought one of everything, from the craziest to the most useful, you would not duplicate a single thing. Then imagine that you have no place to put it.
And that's still not enough.
It was weird to realize, after our house was gone, we didn't have measuring cups, drinking glasses or a can opener. Band-Aids. Pot holders. Towels. Underwear. Shoes.
We had overwhelm in spades. It was hard to answer questions, let alone make plans, lists or eat. If you ask someone what they need, don't be offended if they can't answer (send money), don't be surprised if it's something weird. When GuruEfx point men Joe Weltjens and Lee Duhig came to our house the day it burnt down, we had them drive us to a local vet and we...adopted a cat.
PayPal looks very hard at accounts set up as charities, and will close them. (I know, they closed mine for 24 awful hours.) Best to PayPal Lance and/or Carla directly if they have PayPal accounts as note the amounts as a "gift" rather than "donation." Pretty much anything BUT "donation."
For fuck's sake, DON'T do a charity book. By the time you corral contributors, et the book assembled, pay expenses, get paid, you've given yourself a HUGE headache and probably a lot less money than you intended to send. Benefit books also tend to result in hurt feelings.
A live benefit, or eBay auctions, OTOH, are good.
Don't send anything not asked for (unless you happen to know the person very well.) People who lose homes in fires (floods, quakes, storms) will have storage issues for maybe a long time. This includes managing clothes.
When you send something, send something you'd like to get. Don't pass along the equivalent of pickled beets.
Send money. If you can't (and that is totally okay), send a note, or pass along info.
More on money and contributions further on.
Unless you've lost a house in a fire (or other disaster), you really don't know what it's like. You're right, you can't imagine. "Sucks" doesn't even thinly cover what it's like to lose one's home in a fire.
From my own experience, expressions of good thoughts and encouragement were enough. You don't have to try and relate. It's cool to just say, "I am thinking about you, and wish you luck."
The best way to understand the loss of one's home (at least as much as one can without losing their home to a disaster) is to imagine going into a Target (for example) and understanding that even if you bought one of everything, from the craziest to the most useful, you would not duplicate a single thing. Then imagine that you have no place to put it.
And that's still not enough.
It was weird to realize, after our house was gone, we didn't have measuring cups, drinking glasses or a can opener. Band-Aids. Pot holders. Towels. Underwear. Shoes.
We had overwhelm in spades. It was hard to answer questions, let alone make plans, lists or eat. If you ask someone what they need, don't be offended if they can't answer (send money), don't be surprised if it's something weird. When GuruEfx point men Joe Weltjens and Lee Duhig came to our house the day it burnt down, we had them drive us to a local vet and we...adopted a cat.
PayPal looks very hard at accounts set up as charities, and will close them. (I know, they closed mine for 24 awful hours.) Best to PayPal Lance and/or Carla directly if they have PayPal accounts as note the amounts as a "gift" rather than "donation." Pretty much anything BUT "donation."
For fuck's sake, DON'T do a charity book. By the time you corral contributors, et the book assembled, pay expenses, get paid, you've given yourself a HUGE headache and probably a lot less money than you intended to send. Benefit books also tend to result in hurt feelings.
A live benefit, or eBay auctions, OTOH, are good.
Don't send anything not asked for (unless you happen to know the person very well.) People who lose homes in fires (floods, quakes, storms) will have storage issues for maybe a long time. This includes managing clothes.
When you send something, send something you'd like to get. Don't pass along the equivalent of pickled beets.
Send money. If you can't (and that is totally okay), send a note, or pass along info.
When the time comes, I'll be sure to post more info.


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I'll also point everyone to this http://www.montecitofire.com/resour
They are the best people, and I love Lance like a brother.